Don’t hate them anymore. I know, you’re hurt right now and you will still. But remember this: You and that person are just parallel lines. You were intertwined at one point, and you are not the same as you were before. They changed you, you changed them, and you both learned a lot about each other, relationships, and ultimately, yourselves. And there is no saying that maybe someday, if the fates allow, you might cross each others paths again. Maybe when the time is right, you two will meet again and forgive the past and show each other how much you’ve grown and changed, and maybe this time, you will fit together perfectly. And maybe it won’t happen, and you will just infinitely be moving on in a different direction, only to see them from afar or from the rearview mirror when you miss them or think about them. And then someday, somebody else will cross your path, and you will understand why this person doesn’t fit with you anymore. And realize, that it wasn’t a waste of your time, because it is BECAUSE of this person you were with, that you were able to reach that point. You had to go through a lot and learn more, and just because it was sad and it hurt, it was worth it because you were finally able to allow this person into your life who makes you so happy you could shout it to the world. And don’t we all want that at the end of the day?
This is all happening for a reason, and it was meant happen this way. And you are in this healing stage right now that will take a lot of time to recover from. But when you can think of it in the big picture, and realize that it’s not anybody’s fault; it just wasn’t meant to work out right now, because you are two different people traveling in two different directions who happened to meet each other at maybe the wrong time, I think that is when you can start letting go of the anger and resentment. That is when you can stop thinking about the things they did that hurt you, or you can stop missing them or wanting to talk to them again. Because you are just going to get hurt, because it’s just not meant to happen right now. Take your time away from that person, as hard as it is, and keep on going in your own direction and focus on your own life. Once you reach a point on your own path where you are in a good place, you will be okay again, and I know that along the way you will have many more people cross your path and make you a better person in some way, and eventually you will become the best version of you, and somebody will come around and you will intertwine again perfectly, without getting hurt. It will all end up at a wonderful destination, but you just have to do the best you can to get there :)
I can imagine his look of horror. He probably apologized like fifty times
I think about this a lot